My visit to Seattle, WA

Finally, I took the trip to Seattle after first being invited to visit more so many years ago!  I arrived at night and the city skyline you see from across the river is simply breathtaking.  One that that shocked me was how expensive real estate is.  The two bedroom house that my friends are renting recently sold for $925,000!  I thought my neck of the woods was expensive but apparently not.  I did not have enough time, but I would have wanted to take a day trip to Vancouver, Canada which is about a three hour drive.  Anyway, I have a ten year multiple entry visa to Canada so I hope to go another time.

Some highlights:

The International Fountain and the park around it is really nice.  I am told that many families with young children frequent the area in the summer.  I could see that in my mind’s eye.  It must be refreshing.


Chihuly Garden and Glass – the glass pieces were really beautiful.  My eyes saw what they saw, but my brain couldn’t agree that the art before me was real.  I could have stayed in the glass area the whole day.  We also watched some artists make some pieces.  The process was fast, but difficult and delicate.

This first piece was my favorite.



Space Needle – I saw this in a movie in the nineties and I told myself that I should visit some day.  Apparently, it has been renovated and there is a glass platform at 500 or something feet.  I have fear of heights so I could not go onto or even near the platform.  Even trying to see Seattle from different sides of the Needle was a feat too great for me and I ended up only exploring inside the building.


We visited Pike Place Market which I liked a lot.  You guessed it, the Pike Place Fish Co. was top of the list to visit.  I was surprised to see that it was smaller than I had seen on a documentary. The workers yelled (as was expected) whatever was needed to be said and we, the tourists, cheered.  One interesting thing I noticed though, was that the workers  did not seem to have their heart in it.   I would not either, if I had to do that for years.  It was interesting all the same.



Then on to a nasty tourist site about a two minute walk from the Market.  Yes, I said “nasty” and it is.  It is the Gum Wall.  People chew gum and throw it onto the wall.  I did not understand this tradition, but just had to see it since it was nearby.


Bruce Lee grave – the cemetery was closed earlier than we expected so that was disappointing.  This is one tourist site my dad would have loved hearing about, but oh well.

I am no foodie, but the Indian dinner I had on my last night was delicious.  I would definitely eat there again should I visit Seattle again.

Have you visited Seattle before?  What did you think?


Slugging in the DC Area

There is an interesting form of commuting in the DC area called “slugging”.  This is a form of carpooling where drivers pick up riders, who are total strangers, from designated spots and drop them off at designated stops.  A friend works downtown DC and lives in Woodbridge, Virginia, about 40 kms away.  She drives 5 minutes to a park-and-ride lot, stands in the queue going in the direction of her office and hitches a ride.  She has been doing this for years, saves money and time, loves it and says it’s very safe.

This works for both driver and riders as the former does not have to pay for using the HOV (High Occupancy Vehicle) lanes which are faster, while the riders get a free ride.  Yes, passengers ride for free.

This form of commuting has been around for a long time in DC and helps both people who save resources, and Mother Earth who gets less pollution.   In Zambia, drivers now pick up people on the way and charge them lower fares than regular buses.  It helps drivers with fuel money while passengers save a bit of money, have a comfortable and quiet ride, and don’t get hustled by bus conductors.

Do you live in a city that has a form of slugging?

Just because I am Chinese???

she responded to me.  I was shocked and confused.

There is a Chinese woman that I regularly bump into and we usually chit chat.  Well, a few weeks ago I met her again at a time when the news of coronavirus was getting more media coverage.  I know that most of her family is back in China and I was concerned for them, so I asked her how her family was doing.  Her response was:

“Are you asking me just because I am Chinese?  I do not have coronavirus and neither does my family.  I have not traveled to China in a long time and neither have my parents who live with me (I did not know that her parents live with her).”

That went in a direction I had not been expecting fast!  I explained that I was only concerned for her family.

Around the DC area when something happens in a given country or region, people from other places ask concerned nationals how their families are.  Therefore, it did not cross my mind that the lady would take my concern in a wrong way especially since I sometimes ask after her young son who has a chronic illness and she willingly gives me updates.  I know that there are now some attacks against Chinese or people perceived to be Chinese, but it was disappointing to see that this lady would think so low of me.

I have moved on and learned a lesson not to show concern for people except if they I am close to them.

I hope you are all keeping as safe as can be.

I don’t eat Avocado

I find the craze for avocado very interesting.  I grew up eating avocado a lot especially if we couldn’t afford butter or margarine, which happened frequently.  I don’t like the taste or texture – especially the texture as it seems like a ‘mistake’ to me.  So, you will not find me eating avocado to look cool, healthy or anything!

My parents have countless avocado trees which are very fruitful.  My mother does not eat butter, for medical reasons, and so uses avocado as bread spread.  Fortunately, she enjoys it and she always tries to get me to eat some when I visit.  It’s always a “no” from me.

I hope you enjoy your avocado toast.  Let me know if my mother should send you some! 🙂

Adoption is wrong!!

That is what a good friend said when she was chatting with another friend and I.  The following conversation followed:

Friend 1: “No one should ever adopt”.

Friend 2: Why?

Friend:  It is just wrong!

Me:  What about couples who are full of love and have enough resources but cannot have their own children, even with the latest medical intervention?

Friend 1:  They should just live without children.

Friend 2:  What about children who live in poor orphanages without their basic needs being met?

Friend 1:  They should be left in the orphanages.

Me and Friend 2:

Friend 1:  OK, maybe people can adopt but it is still wrong.

Friend 1 and I didn’t continue with the subject because our friend could not justify her opposition to adoption and was definitely in no mood to listen to a different opinion.  It was unfortunate because Friend 2 is planning to adopt since she has not been able to have children.  She told me afterwards that she did not want Friend 1 to know about her plans because she may get resistance and negative feedback.  By the way, Friend 1 has got two children and a growing brood of grandchildren so she has no idea of what people who can’t have children go through.

I am still very good friends with Friend 1, but this conversation made me start thinking more about what subjects to talk to her about.  Have you ever had a conversation on whether or adopting is right?


I Need my Personal Space!

In my culture personal space is usually a foreign concept, except if it’s your parents-in-law or children-in-law.  However, I have always liked my personal space because my mother told me from childhood that no-one should be near me for no reason.  I wonder if she said this for my safety.

Well, I was minding my own business while standing in line for dinner in the desert in Dubai, when a girl behind pressed against me.  I shuffled forward a few times and she followed suit.  I finally asked her not to touch me and was she shocked!  However, she continued pressing against me and I could tell that she was doing so unconsciously. I let her and her group go ahead of me and I saw that they were they pressing against each other.  Unfortunately for me, the new person behind me also kept pressing against me even when I shuffled away.  I looked around and most of the people in all lines were pressing against each other, whether they knew them or not.

I felt like I was suffocating, not just because I was in physical contact with others but by just seeing other people pressing against each other.  Unfortunately, I was ‘trapped’ in the desert and could not just walk to another place to eat.

Are you bothered when people invade your personal space?

Words 2019 leaves with me

  1. Start where you are.   You may be in the right place to carry out your dream, but the timing may not seem right, resources not enough and people not supportive enough. What to do?  You just have to start right there in that place otherwise you never will.
  2. Bloom where you are planted.  Similar to the point above, most of the time we don’t have to wait to be in a specific “right” place to start doing something.  We have to thrive right where we are even if it’s not in our dream place.

It will do me well to remember and work on what I need to.

Happy and healthy New Year to you all.

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